We’ve probably all heard the Beatles familiar tune, “All You Need is Love.” Yet, I think we have forgotten that. I’ve forgotten that. We have forgotten that life is about love. Period. It’s not how much money we make or possessions we have. So many of us (me!) have our priorities backwards. We might think that once we have the job title or the awards or the diplomas, that we will finally have the time for love and relationships. Guilty as charged!
“Life minus love equals zero.” - Rick, Warren, The Purpose Driven Life”
Our world has dangerously misguided us into thinking and believing that busyness and accomplishment are more important than love and relationships. Deep down, we know this is not true, but we get caught up! I know I do!
My work with Blue Zones Project has empathized for me the critical connection between health and wellbeing and relationships. In fact, three of the Power 9 – those common healthy habits found in the original Blue Zones (learn more at https://www.bluezones.com/2016/11/power-9/) are centered around connection.
- Belong – Participate in a faith-based community of some kind.
- Loved Ones First – Put family first in all decision making.
- Right Tribe – Find a circle of friends that share your commitment to a healthy lifestyle
Many people in the original Blue Zones are living longer, and better than many of us because they put love and relationships first.
Who doesn’t want to live longer, better?!
How do we begin to redirect our energy and time towards love, relationships, and a deeper connection with others?
I think it’s simple, but probably not easy.
What are you willing to let go of to make more time for relationships?
Who do you want to spend more time with but always seem to be too busy?
I know you have all heard this, but maybe it bears repeating. It helps me. At the end of your days, will it be your awards, diplomas, or achievements you want surrounding you? Or will it be people? People you love.
I’m writing this to and for myself. But maybe it will also help you. Sometimes we need a little nudge in the right direction.
Our time here is precious and so very brief. I know I need to do better. I know the parts of my life that I can release to make more time for others. When do we start? Now! Maybe it starts with just one small gesture. Can you carve out a few extra moments today for the people you love? That’s all we need to begin.
“The best use of life is love. The best expression of love is time. The best time to love is now.” - Rick Warren, The Purpose Driven
